Family life can be complicated, messy, and at times painful — but the brave hang around anyway, explains author and podcast host Kelly Corrigan. In her TED Talk, she highlights how navigating the unexpected challenges that arise with our loved ones — like helping a parent with old age or supporting a sibling with depression — requires extraordinary bravery and love that are often overlooked. “Here’s to anyone who notices and reads between the lines, who asks the right questions, but not too many, who takes notes at the doctor’s office .. who listens, holds and stays,” she says. “We, who, untrained and always a little off-guard, still dare to do love. To be love. That’s brave.”